I’ve read a few articles and have seen advice given to lot’s of people in my situation ‘it really doesn’t matter! It’ll happen when you’re ready/least expect it/stop thinking about it! Besides you can be happy single!’, okay I get that they are just trying to make people feel better (trust me 100% I get that) but discounting those people who don’t want a relationship (that’s their choice, all the power to them!), I feel this is a bit dismissive. I think it does matter that we are missing out, after all about 95% of the population over 25 are coupled up/have children/or both-I feel that we are missing a pretty huge chunk of the human experience. Of life. Sure these relationships may not last, but still the experience is had. I also understand where people are coming from with the whole ‘virginity is no big deal’ thing, it’s not like we have a dot on our forehead that changes colour after we loose it and it really doesn’t affect our life in a physical way-but it does matter. Why? Well I think having a first relationship becomes even harder when you are a virgin as well. Not only are you nervous about a whole host of usual normal things you also have the v-card hanging over your head. Do you admit to it? How do you explain? Will they be able to tell? So as much as virginity in and of itself isn’t important it’s important in the context of trying to form a relationship. Well that’s my take anyway.